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• Respect Boundaries
• Grow in your spirituality
• Accept others for who they are
• Listen and respect their point of view
• Don’t hold grudges: Forgive, let go, restore!
• Give room for their personal growth. There are times to grow as couple, family, but also
  time to personal growth.

• Follow the general rules in question 1: Romanticism can’t not exist where is emotional
  tension.
• Take your argument outside the bedroom
• Schedule dates on activities, places that both parts enjoy, not just you. Always take in consideration your partner’s input.
• Add a little bit of salt and pepper here and there:
  1. Cuddle
  2. Flirt
  3. Fondle with each other
  4. Write love, meaningful, silly, or spice notes (Alternate them)

• Using sarcasm
• Lack of respect
• Offending each other
• Lack of communication
• Manipulative attitude
• Absence of spirituality
• Zero romanticism
• Emotional, or physical abused

•  Don’t engage in their negative attitude, or conversation, not even mentally, otherwise you are engaging. In peace and love redirect the conversation, or change the topic.
• Stay away from criticism: When focus in their negative behavior, sooner or later you will end acting just like them.
• Don’t add wood to the fire

Ask to yourself: What do I supposed to learn from this situation? How I can support my partner without turning this into a fight? Seek with you heart and the answer will land on you to act.

• The answer from the previous questions can be very helpful.
• Admire them when they do something, even when is a tiny thing.
• Put emphasis in their qualities
• Men to women: Speak your love to your partner. Most women like to hear it.
• Women to men: Men on the contrary, more than to hear love words, they want respect.

Avoid criticism on the way they do things, but rather admire them for what they have done, even when it is not perfect into your eyes.

Lilia Ackerman
Body Mind and Spirit Master Coach